My bf wants to be a gogo/cage dancer, what should i do?

My bf needs a job and we were talking about possible options and he said he'd really consider being a gogo/cage dancer in a gay bar since the money is good and he loves dancing.

I was taken aback and he didn't understand why, he naively believes that all they do is dance and nothing goes on... What should I do?My bf wants to be a gogo/cage dancer, what should i do?
They do dance,but some do more,it's really up to the individual dancer if they want to do more,and if he's dating you then he probably won't do more then just dance,just let him do it,it's good money.
Don't be absolutely against the idea openly or tell him he can't do it.

1) people don't like feeling controlled

2) you may make him think you don't trust him and that there's no point to the relationship.



I suggest you let him do it and go watch him without letting him know 2 or 3 times. How you see him behave will let you know. If you're WAY too uncomfortable then let him know.My bf wants to be a gogo/cage dancer, what should i do?
my boyfriend was a dancer in a traveling show... the guys in his group, at least half, did not whore themselves out on the side...

if you're good with it happening? be there and be part of it... *shrugs*
I would give him a week or so, and see how it actually goes. Maybe you can go sometimes too and see how it really is. :)My bf wants to be a gogo/cage dancer, what should i do?
What can you do? let him do it

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