Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Can some body who was a stripper or a gogo dancer or some one who knows alot about them?

Im a girl im 15 when im 18 i want to be a stripper can some one give me avide and how does it feel to be one and which one should i do so i can pay my way through collageCan some body who was a stripper or a gogo dancer or some one who knows alot about them?
you are 15. you are not yet mature enough to decide stripping is for you, even if you're waiting until you're 18 (obviously, since that is the legal age). i know you probably think you know what you want, that you feel grown up, that i don't know you and i have no right to say that you're not mature enough to make this decision. well...keep in mind that i was 15 too, only with me, it was the complete opposite. when i was 15 i could never IMAGINE stripping. i hated the idea. i told myself if it came down to living on the streets or stripping, i'd rather live on the streets. i've changed. you will change too. your brain is not fully developed. that is not meant to be an insult, nobody has a fully developed brain at 15, it's just not biologically possible. that's why so many teenagers do irrational, impulsive things. the part of the brain that stops you is not fully functional yet because you are still growing. for me, when i was 15, i lacked the reasoning to realize taking my shirt off was better than dying of malnutrition. for you, it's more impulsive. i was too young to make life long decisions about stripping, and so are you now.



i also don't think that should be your college plan. not everyone makes a lot of money stripping, a lot of very pretty girls end up in debt to the club. not to mention, if you assume you have a plan, you will be less motivated to pay for college by other means. basically, if you decide that is how you are going to pay for college now, and you either back out once your mind is fully developed or you just don't have the skills, and some girls don't, you've screwed yourself. forget about stripping for now. concentrate on doing good in school so you can not only get into the college you want, but get scholarships and grants to go. when the time comes, see if you can get loans. gain working experience at a fast food place or clothing store like other kids your age and build a savings account. you might not have to strip when you are 18, and you might not want to by that point. if you still want/need to when you are 18, then go for it. you'll have scholarships and grants on top of it and an already well established savings account. if you decide not to, nothing lost. but for now, you are too young to be thinking about it, or planning it.



as for how i personally feel as a stripper, i have very thick skin so i am fine doing it. i am extremely strong willed so i am able to refuse drugs and prostitution and keep things clean and legal, and i have fun on the pole. however, if you are not thick skinned, it can get to you. people judge you, stereotype you, and call you names.

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