Is it hard to be a GOGO dancer and NOT feel dirty around your BF?

I got hired as a gogo dancer and had never done it before. I love to dance and I move very sensually. I do not have to show my boobs, but to really make money, you have to take men backstage for lap dances. Lap dances include rubbing your body all over them, dry humping them, and acting like you are making out (with no kissing. AND they cannot touch you). I did 5 lap dances last night and i got home at like 5 am (club is FAR away.)

ANYWAY--

My boyfriend is not enraged about my new job, but he does not think I should do it. He knows what I do in detail and I think it hurts him a little to know his baby shakes her *** for money. When I got home I was not only exhasuted, but I felt dirty and I felt like I had cheated on him. WHAT DO I DO?? I NEED REAL ADVICE FROM GOGO DANCERS.

What do you do to NOT feel so nasty and used at the end of the night???Is it hard to be a GOGO dancer and NOT feel dirty around your BF?
You're not being used, you're using those men to make money. But still, that job won't last. You can't do it forever, honestly. Try getting another job closer to where you live so that you can spend more time with him.Is it hard to be a GOGO dancer and NOT feel dirty around your BF?
What you just described is not gogo dancing. gogo dancer do not have any interactions with people on the floor, they dance at night clubs where the men and women go to party. gogo dancers do not do lapdances. you might as well be a stripper if you are giving lap dances

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Is it hard to be a GOGO dancer and NOT feel dirty around your BF?
I danced for years and I don't beleive it is easy to have a relationship while in that business.The money is good but if you feel dirty and can't look at your self or others without feeling bad about what you do than change what you do.
If this guy is really someone you want to be with then I would say quit, but if not and you can do this and be okay with yourself then go for it. As of this question though it doesn't sound like you're okay with what you're doing. Don't let it effect you because if you let it get to you it will change you. (and trust me not in a good way). If you work hard you can make good money other places to, this isin't the only option.